The Three Pathways to Success
The three pathways to success is a proven and effective strategy, leading you to rediscovering your internal powers and reaching your true potential.
The three pathways are Believe, Love, Trust.
Believe
A belief is a confirmed thought from external filters that has been made into a reality. It’s essentially a story that you have created and told yourself, which may or may not be true. It’s important to note, that although there are many things in life we can’t control, the stories that you tell yourself are something that we can. YOU are the creator of your story and your beliefs. Tell yourself what you want to achieve, and believe that story more than you’ve believed anything else before. When we were young and learning to walk, you stumbled a thousand times and kept picking yourself up to try again. What’s different now? Real growth and reward comes from never giving up.
True and long-lasting change comes from within – you have the answers inside of you and Lu will work very closely with you to overcome the blockages you may have that are holding you back from achieving success. Believe in yourself, and once you begin to truly and undoubtedly back yourself, your inner confidence will begin to shine. In the words of Rumi, “the universe is not outside of you. Look inside of yourself. Everything that you want you already are”.
Love
This quote from Buddha sums up the definition of this section – “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserves your love and affection”. Being someone or something that you’re not takes away your authenticity. To be authentic is to simply be you – not needing external validation. Learn to live with and love your own company, appreciate who you are as a person and what you contribute to your own life.
Fall in love with your beauty, your accomplishments, your dreams, your flaws, your quirkiness, and allow yourself to become vulnerable. Treat yourself with the level of respect and love that you deserve. No one on this planet is perfect – break down those preconceived ideas of who you think you should be, and embrace who you are.
In life we have a choice. We either give ourselves the love we need to achieve our true potential, or we ignore those cries for self acceptance and subconsciously push our goals further and further away. Lu will work with you to learn to love yourself more than you have, love your dreams, love your goals, and learn to love the journey that you’re on in this life. Once you truly love and believe in yourself, other aspects of your life will fall into place.
Trust
Trust yourself, trust your heart, trust your feelings, and then implement your newfound confidence into real life. Only you have the power to control your thoughts, feelings and actions. Trust in your ability to build on the true potential that lies within you. Trust yourself that the actions you’re taking are leading you in the right direction.
In the words of Brene Brown, “Trust is built in very small moments”. Not everything will come easily to us. You have to trust the process, trust in your own ability to make this happen, and most importantly, trust yourself. By keeping focus on the goal(s) you would like to achieve, Lu will work with you to build trust within all aspects of your life.
Actively going after these goals will see you break out of your comfort zone, achieve increased motivation and take advantage of opportunities that are coming your way.
Start practising these new habits today. It’s a gradual practise and it happens in repeated steps. Of course it may sound easier said than done, right? Maybe you even knew some of the stuff and hearing it isn’t enough to make the change you need to make. If you are tired of trying to figure it out on your own, and you want some help to make those important changes sooner, as a Coach, Lu will work with you and lead you towards your true potential.
If you would like to learn more about Coaching with Lu, book a complimentary discovery session and discover how you can dance your way to success, empowerment and reigniting the confidence within. Let’s dance!